Tuesday, November 5, 2013

How to ask a lady/guy out if you are shy

Everyone gets nervous when asking a girl/guy out and everyone goes through it, but it can take a little more effort if they're shy. This will get you to pluck up the nerve to ask them out.

1. Get noticed.
Don't draw attention to yourself in all the wrong ways. It can be easy for shy people to do or say things that can seem aloof to others; this can unintentionally give all the wrong impressions. Just smile sweetly and make eye contact, but don't be scary. Don't stare, just give a sweet cute smile and when they look at you, look for a bit then quickly look away. This will leave them wanting more.

2. Make sure that they're approachable.
Read their body lanuage, do they seem open or does it seem like they want to keep to themselves. You may also not want to ask them out when they are with friends. Especially for girls, don't ask people out when they are with their friends or they will get shy as well and not be honest. Wait until they're alone.

3. Be confident!
There is nothing to worry about, they are just another human being. Just say to yourself, if I don't ask them out someone else might and I've blown my chances. Keep a smile on your face and act happy.

4. Practice in the mirror.
When you have a speech prepared it will go a lot better. If you don't practice you may blurt out: 'ummm er wanna...go out...with, umm...lets date' or something silly like that Just go, "Hey, you're so and so aren't you? Wanna hang out some time?"

5. Be flirty to tempt them and attract them.
If you're a girl then flick your hair or give flirty licks of your lips. If you're a guy run your fingers through your hair and shake your hair. You don't want to come off as too strong so try and start off by being subtle.

6. Approach them calmly and casually.
When they're sat alone just sit next to them and eventually start a general chat. If you're already acquaintances, ask them casual things such as "Hey, How are you?....How have things been?"

7. Hygiene, style, smile.
The three key things you need to remember. Be clean, wear comfortable clothes and keep a smile.


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