10 Things you must NOT do if you discover your lover is cheating on you

It hurts when you find out your lover is cheating on you. You feel betrayed especialy when you are committed to this relationship. What you do next matters alot because if you take the wrong steps you may cause more hurt to yourself. Here are 10 Things you must NOT do if you discover your lover is cheating on you:-

1. Demanding to know about the other person: The truth may hurt you. Can you handle the truth?

2. Insulting the other woman: You are giving her power, she doesn't deserve.

3. Forcing him to choose, thinking he will choose you: There is no competition here-you will lose this one! She is new and they are in the honeymoon phase, you on the other hand you are his old habit.

4. Calling him excessively to check on him like a prisoner: He may start to avoid your calls even if he is not doing anything bad just to protect his freedom.

5. Beating the other woman up: You are creating sympathy for her. Now she looks like your victim to him. With this one you are still giving her power.

6. Threatening to leave just to scare him: You are giving him ideas. You make the grass seem greener on the other side.

7. Crying: He wont feel sympathy for you he will feel burdened by the tears.

8. Snooping: Dont hurt yourself unnecessarily. You will find what you are looking for. Dont break into his e-mails. Dont scroll his cell phone and don't go through his messages.

9. When his phone rings, leave the room Even if its ringing unattended to, leave it alone. Dont answer his phone. Learn to be strong and ignore it..

10. Committing suicide: Seriously, once you're gone, you're gone! He will move on..

This also works with the men too. I hope this helps, Feel free to share with others.